keep nodejs compatible with c-ares 1.17.1

Upstream-Status: Inappropriate [c-ares specific]
Signed-off-by: Khem Raj <raj.khem@gmail.com>

--- a/src/cares_wrap.h
+++ b/src/cares_wrap.h
@@ -22,7 +22,15 @@
 # include <netdb.h>
 #endif  // __POSIX__
 
-# include <ares_nameser.h>
+#if defined(__ANDROID__) || \
+    defined(__MINGW32__) || \
+    defined(__OpenBSD__) || \
+    defined(_MSC_VER)
+
+# include <nameser.h>
+#else
+# include <arpa/nameser.h>
+#endif
 
 namespace node {
 namespace cares_wrap {